Relational Transformation
Move forward unified on mission to grow and thrive in your love and your marriage
Colossians 3:14, NIV
“And over all these virtues put on Love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.”
The World’s Most Practical Marriage Assessment
Preparing for a strong and passionate marriage is one of the most important things you’ll ever do. More than a million couples have used the award-winning Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts (SYMBIS for short) and through the SYMBIS Assessment we can help you prepare for lifelong love like never before.
Plus, it’s fun. We will invite you to answer a few simple questions online and we’ll take care of the rest. We’ll reveiw with you your customized roadmap for lifelong love.
Opportunities and Challenges
Are you struggling to find practical and powerful ways to honor one another?
Explore ways to affirm and compliment one another publicly, to provide for each others needs, to serve sacrificially, and to powerfully pursue and follow-through on commitments
Do you wrestle with expectations that don’t align to God’s design?
Live out the covenant relationship God designed for you by putting Him at the center of your marriage. Let His Word serve as the basis for roles, responsibilities, and resilience.
Have you felt empty emotionally and spiritually in your love for one another?
Become true companions that love unconditionally, encourage openly, connect spiritually, engage intimately, and pray passionately together.
Are you handling conflict seeking reconciliation and restoration?
Learn to examine your own heart, be sincere in offering grace and forgiveness, to acknowledge feelings, to relinquish resentment, to respond with respect, and to restore trust.
How it Works
Individual and Group Coaching
Explore with the realities of relationships; engage the possibilities of communication and conflict; and, embrace a meaningful path forward for a lasting and fulfilling marriage anchored on God’s covenant and promises.
Eternal Expectations
Prayerful Possibilities
Personality Potential
Constructive Conflict
Intimate Interaction
Missional Mindset
How You Will Benefit
Revitalized Relationship
Restore and renew your relationship by resetting realistic expectations, recognizing differences, and restoring God’s design for marriage. Rejoice in the challenges, joys, struggles and celebrations of your relationship.
Constructive Communication/Conflict
Turn conflict into connection. Learn to work together to learn effective communication skills, gain an understanding of each other’s needs, work on accepting each others’ differences.
Reach out, rekindle, repent, restore and reconcile.
Intimate Interactions
Fuel fulfillment in your relationship by improving intimacy in all areas: emotional, intellectual, spiritual, recreational, financial, physical and sexual.
Relational Insight
Ephesians 5:33 NLT
“So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.”
See What Our Clients Have to Say
Rob and Kim M.
“So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together,
let no one separate. (Matthew 19:6)
My husband and I were coached by Debi and Brian while we were preparing for marriage. As this would be a second marriage for both of us, we entered, all too familiar with failure in the forefront. They walked with us through the journey in a caring and prayerful setting based on Biblical truths. We studied what God says marriage was created for and we laughed our way through discussions about “submission” and its perfect intention in a Godly marriage and household.
We know this approach has helped see us through hard times. While marriage is never perfect or easy, Debi and Brian helped lead us towards a foundation built on Christ and His love for us. We are wholly committed to one another as one flesh and are grateful for the guidance that was provided to us through Debi and Brian’s leading and coaching.
Hunter and Megan R.
“Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others.
Be humble, thinking of others as better than ourselves. Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.”(Philippians 2:3-4 NLT)
My husband and I had the great pleasure of working with Brian and Debi for pre-marital coaching. The two of us had never thought of pre-marital coaching as something we would “need” to do, but it turned into one of the best decisions we made before our walk down the aisle. The coaching that Brian and Debi gave us; helped us open up conversations we didn’t know we needed to have, and they did it in such a natural and welcoming way that made what might have been uncomfortable topics easy and empowering. We highly recommend Brian and Debi to anyone seeking any level of relationship (or life) coaching.
Aaron and Lyla G.
Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.You must have the same attitude that for each other that the Lord has towards you.
(Philippians 2:3-5)
My wife and I truly valued this experience for premarital coaching. We gained some wonderful insight into the realities of marriage along with learning even more about each other. Brian and Debi are wonderful people, who share their real stories of things gone well, and not so well, in their own relationship. They treat you like family, with love, kindness, and without judgement. We grew quite close to Brian and Debi over our time discussing life, relationships, finances, and Christ. I am honored to have gone through this journey with such a loving couple as these two, and we are consistently inspired by their investment in God and the joy they spread to all the people that are in their lives.
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Ideal Clients include couples in conflict, engaged couples and married couples.